My due date was August 20th. There were a few worries I had about this. For one, David started a new job a few weeks ago in Salt Lake which requires him to commute 2 hours door to door if he rides the train, or an hour and a half in the car when he's stuck in traffic. We weren't sure how much time he'd really be able to take off. Not that where he works wouldn't let him of course, but it's pretty demanding on his time and he's usually receiving emails all night long. I've also had a horrendous cold and knew if I had to breath on my own for contractions, it'd be terrible. On the 17th my sister in law started work again and she was our plan to have a place for Harrison to stay if it was during the week while we were in the hospital. David's mom and dad are coming on the 21st, so if we waited and he came between the 17th and 21st, we'd have to have him go to a friend which I'd feel bad doing, draining so much of someone else's time. The main worry was my doctor was going out of town from the 13th until the 23rd of August. We went to him so he could deliver our baby, that was the point. I really didn't want someone else delivering our baby. He's the best. I didn't think it would work out since my doctor only induces on Tuesdays and Thursdays because...as he puts it, why would I plan on purpose to work the weekend? Totally get it. But that didn't leave us with many options.
On Tuesday I went in for my 39 week appointment. My doctor checked me and said "well can I throw you a curveball?" He said my cervix was inducible and he could do it Friday at midnight. He normally doesn't do that but because he was going out of town on Saturday evening he was willing to do the late night weekend shift for me. Otherwise I'd have this baby while he was gone. I had looked at a calendar a month ago and thought, man I wish he would come the 13th. That day fit perfectly into our crazy schedule. I got my wish!
The 13th of August is special because it's David's grandfather's birthday. Harrison was born on his grandmother's birthday. That was another reason we thought the 13th would be great so these boys would share their great grandparents' birthdays.
On Thursday I spent hours trying to schedule the induction. Back and forth with the doctor's office and hospital. I was freaking out a bit that it might not work out. When the nurse finally called and told me I could come in Friday night at 11:30pm, I jumped for joy. Well as high as you can jump when you're 9 months pregnant. Friday I tried to keep as busy as possible to keep my mind from thinking about it too much. We went and played with friends, I took Harrison to Seven Peaks to swim, tried to "clean" up the house as best I could, and then when David got home from work I went and got a pedicure. Fantastic way to spend my last hours pregnant. The women I sat next to in the nail salon thought I was having twins...remember not to say that to a pregnant woman. Aside from the twin comment they were so sweet and couldn't get over me being in the salon a few hours before going to the hospital. It was kind of essential though. My toes had been seriously neglected.
Once I got home we drove over to my brother's house to drop off Harrison. Then David and I came back home to finish packing up. I put on makeup and fixed my hair. One of the nice things about knowing when you're having a baby. While we waited we watched Stranger Things. Save Will! And Barb! Before we left, David gave me a blessing. I knew everything would be ok and we'd all come out healthy on the other side.
It was strange walking into the hospital all calm and peaceful. Not in labor like last time. Since it was so late at night, it was dead. We didn't see anyone else besides nurses. A nurse came into our room to ask questions, get baby's heartbeat, and the IV going. She checked me and said I was 2 to 3 cm and 80% effaced. She never could get a consistent connection with the monitor, baby was moving around a lot. Eventually they had to do an internal one that was stuck on his head. Ouch. The IV was a challenge for her to get right too, but thankfully she only stuck me once. Then around 1am, my doctor came in and broke my water. Ever seen how they do that? It's basically a giant crochet hook. Yikes. Then we waited for contractions while the nurse steadily gave me more pitocin. I started feeling them soon after. They got the anesthesiologist in pretty quickly after I requested the epidural. He was amazing. He talked us through everything, explained all of it and was super gentle. Epidurals his way were meant to leave you numb, but still able to move your legs and feel pressure but not pain. That's exactly what happened. Weirdest feeling. My epidural with Harrison left me so numb David had to hold my legs to keep them from falling out of the stirrups.
Then we just waited. We watched the Olympics through everything which was a nice treat because we don't have cable. I tried to sleep, but it didn't really happen. It was better than Christmas Eve. The nurse came in to check me every half hour it seemed, maybe hour. Each time I had progressed further. Then around 4:50am I went from an 8 to a 10 within ten minutes. I had started feeling my contractions again and my little button for more meds wasn't working. So they called in the anesthesiologist who quickly gave me more. It worked just in time. My Dr. was covering for another doctor at another hospital and had multiple babies he was delivering that night. They called him to let him know I was ready to go. Right when I was ready another patient of his at our hospital was also ready. I didn't know who she was, but I really wanted to go first. No hard feelings lady! They said he'd check us both and see who would be the winner.
When he came in with all the nurses I'd assumed it was just to decide who would go first, but they got me into position and told me to push. I was surprised, it all seemed to happen so quickly. I apparently have the kind of hips that make my kids come out posterior, or sunny side up, face up. They're supposed to be face down. Harrison came out this way so our awesome Dr helped him out with forceps. After about 5 or 6 pushes with Mason, Dr got out the forceps. I pushed and he nudged. Then he told me to stop. He worked Mason out the rest of the way with himself. When his head was out everyone was looking at him. I couldn't see anything, kind of wish I did. Last time they asked if I wanted a mirror to which I promptly said no. Even with the grossness it would have been worth it. I did get to reach down and feel his face. I burst into tears. He came out soon after and cried a beautiful cry. He looked just like Harrison to me. He continued to cry which made me even happier. Harrison didn't cry much so he was taken pretty quickly to the NICU for oxygen. I only got to hold him for a second before he was whisked away. This time no one was taking Mason anywhere.
He looked so perfect and still does. He never seemed to have the cone head or the puffy newborn face. His skin was perfectly pink and velvety. I cried and cried when I held him the first time. We've waited for him for a long time, which I'll get into another post. It all went better than I could have hoped. He arrived at 5:45am. Total labor time was only about 4 1/2 hours. Not bad at all. It was rather easy. The only downside was being up all night, left us completely wiped out Saturday. That day at the hospital David got on his computer to try and get some work done. Each day he gets a report with about 40 missionaries who have needs he has to take action on. He works in the pre-field area of the missionary department for the LDS church and if you know missionary work, it never stops or takes a holiday. Even when David is at home from work for the day he's hearing from people on the other side of the world who need assistance with something. On Saturday however he was shocked to see his report only had 2 people and one of them he passed on to another area because it wasn't his department. He's never ever seen it like that since he started working there. He only had one person. Huge blessing. We are so grateful how smooth everything went and continues to be.
Thank you to all who have visited and brought meals. What a huge relief since I haven't felt good enough to even make the freezer meals I prepared. For now I'll just go snuggle my beautiful baby boy.